“Hello! I’m sorry I didn’t respond until now, and it is because I have been thinking of the exact thing I want to say to you. I’m not going to lie to you and tell you the last seven months have been easy. They have not been, but I have come a very long way in trying to get over you. In June of 2010 I made two mistakes. One to talk to a married man and second, to fall in love with him. You were amazing. You have a good heart, you are a good man who I know has good intentions. I don’t regret what we did, I do however regret what I did, what WE did to your wife. Granted I was married to and I don’t want to say he doesn’t count but we were separated basically for nearly a year, and now almost three. I don’t know why you contacted me and frankly please don’t answer because I don’t want to know. I don’t want to hear that you miss me and have been thinking of me because it will hurt to much. And I don’t want to hear that you two are doing really well and you are happier than you ever have been and decided to fix things and you wanted to tell me thank you for being wonderful for the two years you were so lost and alone because that too will hurt. Being that you called me honey I’m thinking it might be the first. I respected your decision when in a fight with her to tell her all and I have respectfully walked away, in return please respect that I am trying to heal from the best and worst thing I have ever done, and respectfully walk away. I will always have a place for you in my heart. This went further than I ever imagined. I will never, ever forget you. Right or wrong, thank you for teaching me so much about myself.”
SECOND I have FULL intentions to reply to Ariella. How dare you judge me.
Ariella (at http://iminlovewithaserialcheater.com/) commented on your post, “CANT EVEN THINK OF A TITLE: “Just curious and this is only my opinion. What did you think was going to happend when you started dating a MM? I am so floored by all of you women who are sitting home crying over someone elses husband!!! It truly does sicken me! Im sorry, I do not know you, but why would you ever involve yourself with someone who was already involved? What kind of woman does that? Seriously! Sorry, but I don’t feel sorry for you, you brought this on yourself!!! Any woman that would stoop as low as to dating, im sorry, fucking another womans husband deserves whatever she gets. Just my opinion.”
I love how you tried to be all polite about it too. We are all human. We all make mistakes. Until you know my entire story, and my entire situation DO NOT JUDGE ME. I understand your point but I don’t think you know me or my story or my situation. I don’t think its right to sleep with another woman’s husband that isn’t quite how my story went. However since you think you know so much about me go ahead and judge I don’t care. But know full on that it is wives like you that get cheated on because just like you are judging me, you probably judge your husband in everything he does to the point that he needs to step out and feel like he is doing SOMETHING right in SOMEONES EYES. Oh wait! Thats right! Your husband HAS cheated on you, and more than once. Hmmmmm wonder why?!?!