I know I did wrong in having an affair.
I know by putting myself out there people were going to judge me.
I didn’t start blogging to have others feel sorry for me.
I did however blog to vent and heal and whatever.
So how dare you judge me… if you don’t like what I write, simply don’t read it. I’m fine with your opinions… I get it.
I’m asking for comments. Fine. I have a lot of followers/commenters/bloggers that are on ‘the other side of this situation’.
I respect them, they have helped me to. But her comment was so hurtful and mean.
“I think its funny that you titled a post trust. NO one should trust you. You not trusting your husband is called Karma for your disgusting actions. You just want people to feel sorry for you to justify you having an affair. I hope your husband wakes up and fucks another to show you first hand what you did to your husband and the married mans wife.”
I don’t get many of these comments but when I do they bother me. Why wouldn’t they? I’m human. The funny thing to me is they are not perfect. I’m pretty sure they’ve made choices in life that weren’t the best.
My story is different. I didn’t just go out and sleep with someone with a loving devoted married man at home. Drugs, being absent for YEARS was part of this…. does it make it right? No. But last time I checked judging others is a sin too. But whatever. If it floats her boat to be such a judging, hateful person then judge away if you feel better about yourself at the end of the day. Oh and what you said about Karma, that you are right about, Karma will come back and bite you in the butt for judging others!