Obviously this picture is not us in real life lol, we are just friendly commenters on each others blogs. Want to hear the weird triangle part? This is how I think of the three of us: The cheater, the cheated and the other woman. Or as some of my commenters would call us would be the asshole, the victim and the whore. Either way you see fit to call us the three of us have made a pretty good friendship in our situation.
Wayward had an affair, yes.
Wendy’s husband had an affair, yes.
and I, had an affair with a married man while being married myself, yes.
Our triangle is so very interesting. We have one person on each of an ‘affair situation’ in this online friendship. I have seen how the wife of the married man thinks, because of Wendy. I have read and learned how the man I had an affair with might think about me or what might be in his head in choosing to heal his marriage with his wife because of Wayward. Wayward has learned from Wendy how his wife might have felt at times because of how Wendy has written. Wendy reads my writings and learned that I am a human with a heart and not a whore as I am so nicely labeled by many. And Wayward sees what it is like after an affair for a woman on the outside not at home with the wife. We all played a different role in the same book. And what is so fascinating to me is we all encourage each other and feel for each other! I love Wendy and Wayward’s comments on my blog! I love their points of view. I love reading their experiences. All of my followers have helped me through this spot in my life, but there is something about these two… I needed to hear, see, read, feel all sides. You have to know all of it. And these two especially have shown me this… Wendy and Wayward I appreciate you. Thank you for not judging me…. the way a lot of people have, I can’t believe how much we have all changed in just a matter of months.
My perfect little blogging buddies. My affair-therapy triangle.
OH and the really cool part? All of us decided to work really, really, really hard and repair and save our marriages. THAT is the coolest part my blogging friends!