So apparently I have a new person that just doesn’t get me. She is upset because I deleted her comments after stating that I call people cowards for not owning up to their comments or whatever. I will tell everyone that I deleted her comments because she called someone I like who’s blog I follow a dick. She said she thought he sounded selfish and like a dick. UMMMM I like him. I like his blog. I will NOT let some random person bad mouth and name call people (or bloggers) I like names. I will delete your comments if you are going to be THAT hateful and mean. I will however call your lowness and rudness out for everyone to see and either agree or disagree with me.
Here is what she said to me about my blogging friend who posted pictures of his new house and is EXCITED and HAPPY to be moving on from his failed marriage that ended a YEAR ago:
“Wow. What a dick.”
I said: “excuse me? I don’t understand? Why is he a dick? I think you are misunderstanding. He is a blogger that blogged through his divorce that he struggled with. I love his blog and I care about him very much. This is not the man I speak of in any of my posts… I think you are confused thinking he is either my husband or my A.P. and he isn’t either. I am happy for this man however for moving on and being happy, thus me being so confused by your comment. ???? He is FAR from being a dick.”
She said: “It comes with the territory of having a blog, see.
Some folks are gonna like what’s written, while others, well, not so much.
I like your blog a lot, but there is something about his tone that comes of as choady and oh so self-righteous. And, I’m not confused. Not in the least.”
Then I said, “well think what you would like, but I’m telling you, you’ve got him all wrong.”
and she said: “Ok. Peace.”
And it pissed me off. That someone would call someone who is happy and moving on, and in a good place in his life a dick. Its that judging thing again. So out of anger of name calling and judging, I deleted her comments. I just don’t have the time and energy for that bullshit.
Then I got this (on a different blog post): “It’s amusing that you called the person who commented on your post a ‘coward’ when you showed similar cowardice by deleting my comments about the link to the blog you posted a couple of days ago.
I ‘get’ that it’s your blog, but I guess I expected more out of person who cries out for honesty from her readers, yet doesn’t exactly practice what she preaches.
And, yes, I expect this comment to be deleted in 5…4…3…”
And I finished with: “I’m sorry I just didn’t see in his post what made him a dick and I will NOT use my blog to let others call people names. That is the only reason your comments were deleted. If you don’t like him or his blog fine…. I will not support name calling or blog hating by using MY blog. Thanks for understanding. It had nothing to do with anything other than being friends with him. Thanks!”
Please tell me in THIS post what made him a dick?
So my faithful, (KIND) bloggers/readers/friends…. am I in the wrong here? I’d hope if we’d been blogging friends for a YEAR and someone posted mean hateful judging words about me or someone else you knew you wouldn’t put up with that either. I’m assuming the REAL reason for her attitude and uglyness is to get some followers to her blog so I won’t link it here, but I’m pretty sure she will comment which will pull an audience to her. Annoying. I don’t get it. Be kind. Why couldn’t she comment, “Good for him. Moving on and being happy… everyone deserves to be happy.” But no because he is happy that makes him a dick. Wow, because she has a voice, maybe that makes her a bitch??? Karma. Do not judge others…. all too soon someone will judge you…