It’s all so debatable. Right from wrong. Don’t you think? Blurred lines. That Grey area. I would have never, (long, long ago), thought in any circumstance could an affair be understandable. Ever. I would have said women who cheat were whores and men were scum. They were both home-wreckers. Well, that is until now. Well until 2010. When I learned FIRST hand you shouldn’t be so quick to judge. When you choose to blog you set yourself up for three things. 1. to get your words and feelings out. 2. To hopefully find some support or people who have “been there, done that” and can relate. And 3. Haters. Blamers. Finger Pointers. Judgers. Those who are somehow better than you. Your skin gets thick pretty quick. But there are STILL those jabs that hurt. To the commenter that said this: “God punishes in strange ways. Maybe your baby died and his spirit was given to a more deserving woman because you had an affair you whore.” FUCK YOU. I’m pretty sure God, (since you seem to know what he does), is very proud of your mouth, your pointing fingers and name calling and oh… judging.