I’m here. I’ve been so sick. I swear I’ve been sick for two weeks. I still have an ear infection that will not respond to antibiotics. Crazy! I’m trying to stay positive and not complain.
So I got an email from someone and I don’t ever talk about the emails I receive because I respect the things you guys tell me when we have conversations back and forth. But I can share her story without giving it away because it has SOOOO much in common with so many emails I have gotten. She was me in the beginning. Hated men that cheated. There was no excuse. Angry at women who had affairs with married men. Well anyway her husband had an affair and after losing most respect for him found herself getting close to someone at work. She, (as I was), was shocked at how innocently and easily it all started. Talking, laughing, popping in to the others office to say hello and then wanting to know more about them and ‘planning how’ to bump into them to just have someone to talk to. She said, (like me), she felt safe having this person to talk to because like her HE was married too. And over time, she grew to care about him and one thing lead to another. And she said she looked at how judging she was to her husband. She realized how easily it could start. She said she originally hated the other woman until she was one. Funny how that happens. Like I said never judge because one day it could truly be you. She said, (AS DID I), that I would never have an affair. I would never cheat. And look. Now we are in the same boat. I love the emails, and I never speak of them but I have heard this story, this version probably 20 times. We all say we don’t know how it happens but it just does. Now what does she do? I told her to let me know if she figures it out. My suggestions were start a blog, and try TRY to not talk to HIM. Easier said than done I know.