They are all different. Right? For example, (I’d like to know what HE thinks but), I feel like fucking is one of two things. Rough sex or quick. With or without feelings attached. I think sex is just sex… no strings…. no feelings. Maybe at the start of an affair for some. Some of my readers say flat out- “they had an affair because they were missing SEX. No drama, no relationship, no feelings, just sex”. And then there is making love. The complicated one. When do you go from sex to making love? I can say with HIM we had sex, (when we were learning about each other), it at first was awkward, maybe because of the situation. And I think I’d say we have fucked…. (I don’t mean that to sound so dirty), but we met to do that… quickies and seriously relieved some sexual frustration…. but as far as making love I find myself thinking. Wow. I think men and women define this differently. Yes us women are all romantic and sappy and say oh the music was right or he was amazing and it was slow… but what if it is more detailed? What if at a moment it hits you. That you want nothing more to be with this man that is with you right now. A moment when you realize you have never felt an orgasm like that or felt goosebumps cover you when you felt overheated? What about when you lose control of every one of your senses. You forget where you are and the ringing in your ears is deafening? Is making love losing sense of time, surroundings, and of the real life situation you are sitting in? All I know is when HE touched me, just a touch goosebumps could fly down my sides and erect my nipples. One kiss and I was seriously dizzy. I can say I never felt those things even with my husband in the very beginning when things were good. Never have I been aroused so quickly or so much by anyone.